For those who are able and willing to be challenged in their walk with Jesus, consider living in a gender specific discipleship house.  These are small communities that live in a structured, disciplined environment geared towards growth. Another purpose of these houses is to be able to bring in someone with a lot of brokenness in their life and give them the structure they need for healing and growth towards the victorious Christian life.  Contact anyone from the church leadership for more information regarding these houses.